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Friday, November 12, 2010

CAN 'I PASS THIS ON OR IS IT'NEED TO KNOW ONLY'?

Gossip really bugs anyone who is kind.Howerver,sometimes even kind people can be found gossiping inadvertently in day to day chatter with friend and associates.

Ask urself these several simple Q mentally about what u're about to say before speaking aloud:

1.How would you like it if someone said this about you?

2.Is it true?Maybe it is but is repeating it necessary?

3.Is it kind?It may be true,about urself or someone else,but if it harm another,you have no right to repeat it.

4.Is it just?Is it honest,compassionate,with the person's best interest at heart?

5.Is it ncessary?will it do any good and satisfy all the other conditions?Not only is it necessary,but it is necessary to the other person to hear?

Remember,''NEED TO KNOW''.
If it passes this simple test,then by all the means speak ur mind and never fear again that you might be caught being a gossip.

1.Try not to talk behind their back.Remember what goes around comes around.Unless it is necessary,don't say something aboout someone else that you wouldn't  sat to his he/she face.

2.Try to think about the implication it might have if you were spread the gossip.

3.Think of the quotes,''WHOEVER GOSSIPS TO YOU WILL GOSSIP ABOUT YOU''.

4.Make sure the gossip is actually correct before spreading it to avoid any embarassement.

5.Beware this may cause unnecessary hate and may break up a friendship so be sure THIS is what you want to do.


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